Lin - the negative scenarios.

The silent treatment - The way she behaves sometimes, sleeping in her room, leaving the bed in the night, going to the doctors alone, silent in the auto, taking a walk by herself, then there are these massages she writes. I feel like being careful around her.

The jealous - The way she feels jealous and possesive when I talked to preksha or Jalyassa, all kind of imaginations, from I am a prisoner, you will make things easy. unrealistic expectations from relationships, creating hope and getting hurt. and then she tries to push for marriage etc.

Her mental and physical health - She is waking up with these I have low energy, I feel dizzy, etc. digestion, rashes, and sleep issues. These even seems pyschosomatic issues. The way she postpone the The way she buys the clothes…

Intellectually - Intellectually she is took 4 years to complete that degree which supposed to done in 2 years.

A bad deal - She is 2 years older than me, not very beautiful, and doesn’t want to dress up either. She is having an aging mom and the issues related to that.