The selection.

There are people, who gives you strong negative vibes, a kind of coldness, It is visible they are playing games or on the other frequency [ the smoking girl in zostel, the Mumbai girl, the heels of dwani] if there is a strong arrogance, just leave them alone. There is other people who are closed or very much in their world, the German recover, The zostel corner. Leave them alone too. Than there are girls who are already engaged, let them be.

Once you trim down the extreme, there is similar| different dreams and values. Attraction and non-attraction.

If there is attraction and similar values, go for it. Take it as far as you can. Experience or build the relationship itself. And go deep. Real experince, real data, real change within. Or the very least you will learn. The long term relationship will be based on similar values, attraction, type.

If there is attraction and different values, experince this, you will learn a lot. And it will expand your horizon. Ofcourse there is limit to which you will expand, A glass of wine is good but there is no way I will ever go as far as smoking weeds.

Rule out if there is arronagnce, games, and closeness is there. if the attraction and similar values are there, go for it, explore, see how it will turn out to be. If attraction with non similar values are there, go and learn. If non attraction and non-similar values are there. Let go.