Actionable KWM. Social.

I wanna be completely self satisfied and don’t want to be internally dependent on any one socially. I know when my mind is uncentered a thought related to social desire arises and then from there all kind of social desires and valnurablity arises.

I know there is Dhamma of mind related to social aspect, I wanna be free from the thought related to acceptance | rejection | praise. Winning | explaining. And sexual turmoil. Because these thoughts creates dissatisfaction and can not be satisfied. I also want to cultivate the thoughts of comapassion and well being of others as they are pleasent and taste sweet.

I wanna be more proactively engage and water the seeds of compassion. By serving in selfless manner and giving Dana. I want to take advantage of it by everyday opportunity to help other people and implementing self less project.

Because I have to live and work in the socaity. I want to master social etiquette. I wanna master how to handle bad behaviour and keep people accountable. I wanna be very good in leadership and teamwork. I wanna master diplomacy, negotiaton and masterful communication. I also like to present myself in dignified appearance.

i wanna constantly refine my understanding of relationship, intimacy and friendship until I understand clearly what they are, what to expect and what I want. Based on that I want to build my romantic relationship, social circle and family.

 
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