Distorted by Attraction.

The Starbucks - Highly pravocativly dressed. Maked up. Toned. Heeled. The idea is to vividly present an image, that image polarize the attraction if you have cardinal desire. There is change in your action around that person because now you are not equanimoius. This creates a perfect blindfold and you are unable to see the reality.

Now you are more tender and qualifying for that person. There are unintentional gaze. At one level this subconscious reaction is completely out of your control. The more you entertain this desire the weeker you become against it.

One it makes you unable to see how other person really is. There is hours of effort to do that make up, buy those clothes, and the shoes. There self worth is invested in that. Just imagine for a second what they before they came infront of you. Imagine how much clothes, and the hours they spent to create this bubble, how much discomfort they are valunteerily chose to wear those heel so they look good. So people like them.

Can you see all this or you are just seeing apperance. Can you see behind this unifying look. There is a naked bones and flesh and fluids.. would you tolerate disrespect because you like that image. Or you feel compassion.

Did you notice what all this attention does to their self image. And that apperance allow them to become bitchy and still get away with that.

How the duality makes other side less attractive…

There is nothing wrong with the apperance but see the manuplation it is able to create.

It is a reactionary mechanism and ideal reaction should be to observe and acknowledge the fact you are experincing the attraction. Although with time and as the experience showing what creates it and what it does to people it’s effect is weakening over me.