Being an ass.

Isn’t it very easy for some people put their demands and force their wishes so easily to others. Ofcourse this will create resentment in others and they will be left alone with time.

In this point of time I find very comfortable to make all kind of reasonable demands to others. Express myself clearly. At one level I am also very assertive.

Although I need more practice in confronting others and being a bit of an ass in a way. In a way rejecting others offer when they are controlling.

To completely flip the equation and become very comfortable in all social situations, I need to practice being controlling person as well. It is kind of essential.

What is being a controller type person is ?

Forcing your dream on other ! Threat of disapproval ! Making demands ! Confronting if something displeased ! Making them responsible for any kind of unpleasantry for you ! Asking them to justify their stance with threat of judgement. In front of other people ! Being inconsiderate for others pleasure or pain. Not justifying anything but asking other to justify ! Responding with clear harshness ! Give command not request ! Keep the upward of poisition in your dream. Explaining nothing. Asking others to explain everything.

 
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