Causes and conditions of low self esteeem.

When we don’t choose which direction we are travelling. We end up choosing the default. There is no such thing is not choosing. We can not not choose even for single moment.

When we are not choosing anything and just reacting, escaping, the state of mind become even more painful. This is the sign of retreat.

Lethargy and how much control you have over your mind to keep marching while these gulp of energy is moving.

The real desire to get something can cut the fog effectively. Without desire or aspiration it is hard to be motivated for anything. Intellectually knowing what is good for you is not same as desire.

And then these things some time has negative effect. I don’t want to be in a relationship. But don’t want not to be in relationship.