childhood scars

there is this common theme in psychology. that your current state of being is majorly influenced by nurturing. is it possible that some of the under flourished or blocker aspect of my life is driven from those childhood events like I stole and got humiliated. did I left those events behind or I am still holding them somewhere deep inside.

It is clearly affecting some of my friends life around me. also the obedeint training has fairly neutralize peoples mind in my community.

meditation is silver bullet to subjectively understand and recitify this.

besically what it does is basically create limiting beliefs. and bind them with an emotional tie. to call the bluff. first you need to know what is the limiting belief and than be aware next time while it is happening. you will still feel bad as this is more of automatic process. but you will also notice the falseness of it. and I guess with time it just subside. you don’t feed it.

the ultimate remedy is to be enough detached with emotional reward and pain. that atleast it doesn’t control you.