crucial conversation.

The difference of opnion is I want to go to gujurati, amritesh wants to go to kalp vraksha. I don’t like being waited and he feels insecure and take it as personal defeat.

I can cut off the communication, leave without telling him and it will kill the relationship same thing with him. we can bring the topic in front of each other. and discuss it.

He is already experiencing low self esteem and people in his batch severely testing him, and he is taking everything personally an attack of him, than maybe even me working more clearly makes him feel uncomfortable.

I don’t want to compete, I want to live a good life relationship and consistent growth, possibly learn from him and help him to grow as well. I also want to have clear independence.

I am withdrawing and he is taking potshots.

He is not very mature, he is smart, his self worth is highly rooted in other people’s opinion. He is getting opposite and in general he is living in the conditions which are dark, he is feeling very insecure. one thing is he is providing me the challanges to learn to work with amature people. He is also providing the opportunity to lead someone in that state. His communication is very different so he is also in a way providing me an opportunity to learn argumentation. He is constantly providing me different opportunity to grow in social aspect. I can give him acceptance or guidance
whatever is his requirement at the moment.

The mutual respect has to be restored. the problem is that me going to gujurati is making him believe I am rejecting him or his opnions are not important. you need to make it clear that i am going to gujarati not because of you. but myself. and some time for their sake go other places like vega city.

I am moving more towards withdraw, my emotions are of irritation and withdrawn. because he is purposefully delaying the time, he doesn’t wan to go but is going. he said it will be cheaper at kalpa.

I am going to that place everyday which is what I want but it is in a way forcing them to do the same.

Man I am feel like you were feeling irritated because you have to go to the gujrati because of me, what was that.

but how did you start acting this way. is it because of mentoring.

ok lets do it twice a week.