Different states of mind.

Attraction - There are desires like desire for women, in the presence of the object of desire there is attraction, Mind automatically starts to work in order to see how can It realise the object of desire. If I do not act there is judgment. If I do act and failed there is judgement. If I don’t there is nagging.

Confusion and indecision - When there are two conflicting thoughts mind gets the mode of indecision, It takes energy to resolve these conflicts and the process is not fun, there is a tendency of mind of deflect and do something else. The indecision also breeds low self esteem.

Peace - When there is nothing in the mind, this state is pleasent.