Domination.

extending help - the guy who asked me if he can use my computer and then ignoring. sehnaz asked me to show the post and then giving me attitude why I am showing something else. rudely asking me to give the pan.
there is commonality of strong personal importance. even prabeesh.

direct disrespect -
krishnan right on scolding me, and asking me why I don’t know places in india. ahyam | hosam.

The reply of attitude. I can see your speech.

the common dream - the trek vs shady places.

Hisitation on showing desire - do you want to go out. starting a conversation.

self importance - a controlling person always act out of high self importance. in his mind he has a set of rules that he judges world against. and he has the high self regards. or he is winning. or trying to protect himself. he can either control other or in the air of superiority withdraw. they have very strong grip on their dream. these people are the lonely people.

stay on the bettleground of logic - when someone try to invade boundaries, stop and ask them to justify.

use the silence - you do not have to reply.

Asserting on the common ground - the resturant to eat, food to order. place to hang out. and music to stop

asserting on others beaviour with different weight- stay with me tonight. lets go. start a conversation and than hold it eve if other is uncomfortable.

Justify your behavior - Ask other to justfy why they don’t want to do something that you want them to do.

 
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