Family
The seperate unit -
Each one of us has a personality, a nature, a reality. Each one of us has to face the consequences of their action. there is kind of suffering associated with it and this isn’t even a real suffering. And then all this is temporary and organic.
The rights of each one -
It is in the power of each member of family to live the life on their own terms, even if that is disastrous, yet it is their inherient right. It is also the right of each person to attempt to control, love or abuse other person. It is also in the right of each person to set the boundaries or deny that abuse.
The responsibility -
It is essentially the responsibility of more mature person to be petient and help less mature person, in that process their is growth for both. It is the responsiblity of more mature person to communicate and set the tone of the relationship which is good for the other person. It is the responsiblity of more mature person to make sure, he is not induldging the less mature person. Take the responsiblity of bettering your communication.
the pleasure of family -
When there is no trying to control and fight, there is pleasurable moment of being together, having food together, playing, hugging, there is a pleasure and flow and bonding and being together. There is this sense that somebody truly got your back.
The reality -
In the end, you only have control over your behaviour. You can’t control how Prachi and mom will behave with each other. Even if your heart is scratching, mom has to go through her consequences, the only control you have is your behaviour and communication and action. In the end only thing you can do is to have fun, set boundaries, communicate clearly, set examples. And live your life.
It is all temporary -
It is the matter of time, we will all vanish in the Ether, and restart the process again. So while you are still alive, have a good time and grow. And know all these sufferings and drama, it is all temporary and illusory and organic, what can you say this is how it is. Something’s are cactus and soemthings are rose. What’s wrong in it.
The code of conduct -
Live your life, have fun of blessing of family, help each other to grow, make your communication clear. And point out any controlling behaviour. Know your limits. Know all this will end soon.