freedom or facade !
hiding flaw in character by personality is not the good strategy. the confidence, the sense of self must not be fused with clothes, color and hair style, wearing mask of facade is not going to bring freedom.
It is simple to observe that their is a mutual game world is playing. a common delusion. and the game is you are how you present yourself. If you want the reward play the game. even I see people people the same way a lot of time. it’s like we don’t have enough mental cuffs. that we invented few more.
there is nothing wrong in presenting yourself nicely and there is nothing righteous in looking like savage. but the problem is fusing once identity with it. you see how this quick fix gives a very temporary and deluding confidence at the cost of permanent imprisonment in the clutches of that delusion.
can you walk naked in the room full of people wearing suits ( if it is legal ). not protesting or proving anything but just simply not caring. is it possible ! can we be free. than present however you want to present yourself.
don’t stuck please go beyond these mundane games.