Blossom a new relationship.
Yoga class | toastmaster | retreat | cult | cafes | coworking | traveling .. I am lately hanging out in the places of my interest and I am also meeting a lot of people who has similar interests, sparks or values. now the question is with whom and how to take forward the relationship.
sometime it happens that I feel not so willing to spark any conversation, especially in a new place. there is a slight deviation towards not talking and some time its other people energy. and some time I just assume. If you are at new place, and until you are specifically feeling not to engage, put a little more effort to overcome a little bit of resistance.
beginning the conversation and seeing wether there is some connection is quite natural. it just feels easy to connect like madhyuri or new yoga guy. this in itself is quite filling, but than you can take it to the next level, ask them to join in a cafe.. and go little deeper, little more playful.
sometime it does happen that while you are out you realize that you are with wrong person. she is creating the judgemental, advicing and strong self centered behavior. in those scenarios you can stop adding more fire. respond with respect but don’t add more.
You should continue doing it until you have atleast five good companion relationship, and a romantic.
it is as simple as that, keep going to these places, put a little extra effort if necessary, if you find people with similar values, go out with them, flourish a relationship. if you find uncompatibility stop adding more.