GLI - family
the best thing about having a family is they are there always. unlike friend and other relationship family sticks and commitment of relationship is beyond anything.
I’m blessed to have a family that is truly caring. they always put their heart into my upbringing. whatever they could, they did and yes we had fight and all but my family always did whatever was best in their opinion for me. I’ve seen so many parents heavily projecting their expectation on child or just doesn’t give a fuck about their child or siblings.
to be honest when i see people in my direct relationship it is pretty much a miracle that I live such a good life. and foundation of it all has been laid by family. it is an emotional realisation to have that my parent put their every need behind us. they didn’t have fridge, washing machine but they paid for my expensive tuition fee with such a pride ( great sign of a good person ). same goes with my brother he has shown tremendous care for us.
It is quite emotional to even think about what kind of childhood my parent had.
but here is the deal we don’t live together anymore, I’m traveling, my brother do his job in other city and parents lives in home, and everything needs a nourishment to grow. it requires very much deliberate attention and effort that family always comes first.