Gp2- skill = attention*time
and I mean skill in very broad sense. there is no secret sauce. it is simple whatever you put your attention on grows.
event though I agree that different people has different aspiration. nonetheless everyone has to invest his physic to grow anything.
so next time you like anything in anyone, just look how did he comes to this point. how much time and effort he has put into this. there is no magic.
and the trick is if you put your consciousness into confusion, confusion grows, if you put your consciousness into clarity, clarity grows.