How can I validate if something is true.
By the law of reciprocity, you always give more than you take.
First how can I varify if this belief is true, what is it’s weight against other beliefs? How can I integrate it?
How can I verify it?
So sohail gave me his place to stay and I feel more than happy to call him and ask him to stay, in the case of anurag I will not do it.
I did photoshoot for Lin and she was trying different ways to repay. Prachi tried to repay with making food. Shantu did a lot for Konark and konark is trying to repay it. Maybe I took a lot from lin and she is feeling unfair.
There is some truth in this, I can varify based on my own experience. What about the other way around, can you prove it wrong. What are the incident. I was taken advantage by dada. I paid upfront and he kind of start taking advantage.
Anurag intially did it well and was more than welcome to join for me, but later when he turned out to be duplicit, he became kind of villain.
So one agency is to look back on your experience. and then check through your reactions, especially subconscious reactions.
There are two states if you give someone like Lin or sohail they will give back in much bigger quantity if you give back to someone like dada or someone in that state they will consider as weakness and will take advantage.
The another source is from the place this agreement is coming, this is coming from the book influence with lifetime research, and he give several example to show what he is saying is true or based on what logic he is saying it. reading it has a less weight. understand it has more and experiencing it has the largest.