How does a good family relationship looks like.

The very foundation of a good relationship is the love. Is the state of not doing work out of abligation. Not this sense of irritation. The conflicts are inevitable. Expectations and challanges are inavitable too. Especially when you didn’t really choose your family.

Every challange will help you to grow if you are willing to stand up.

There are four family memeber in your house. And you must need to clearly understand the daynamics here. Understand what is an optimal scenario in each case. How can I make my part best. And how to resolve the conflicts.

Than comes the second scenario when there is intercommunication.

All relationship has these scenarios -

• controlling other person.
• controlling the play.
• not serving me.
• not playing my game.

An ideal relationship - in an ideal relationship no one control each other, but understands each other. Support each other when other person seems to struggle. You respect each other’s dream. And the play is mutual. Sometime I try your game, sometime you try mine and sometime we play the mutual ones.

Mom - mom is the most childish. And the hardest. She has an image of me. And if don’t act in the same way she become abusive. She is also very attached and constantly ask for doing different things. She also translate every thing in terms of her self. She is extremely efficient to make me feel like a victim when I don’t do things she suggested. And then openly start to abuse.

Papa -