How to judge a man.

People are going to judge other based on their upbringing and values. Some other people will be able to understand other’s value and upbringing, somewhere someone has some criteria based on that judgement will happen.

This is an important aspect in terms of giving opnion on other people and what kind of people I want to get into relationship with and hangout with in general.

the nature of a person - there is a type of a person, Lin is going to pay back as soon as she received, bharath is sinecerely going to do what ever is being asked of him, I am going to keep looking for the clarity.

the hard working and sincere types - vishvjeet is hard working, amritesh and himanshu are not hard working,

serious and non-serious - oba and alex are serious, I am serious, kaustubh is not serious.

aptitude - given the same amount of time and same intensity of desire, and same level of knowledge some people can pickup fast and some people can pick up slow. and given the same strategy and level of understanding some people can hold more complex concept more easily.

The knowledge and understanding - how much knowledge and understanding you have for the given person, that tells wether person is going to struggle or going to be at ease.

The idle chit chatter and time passers - There are some people who are just passing time, hunting sense pleasures and all.

Social understanding - Are they offending other people, people pleasures, can they express themselves. what kind of impression they made and their general hygiene.

 
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