Ideal relationship, unblocking and uplifting.
An ideal relationship should not put the load on other person at the same time should be uplifting in others dream.
The more tension and obligation there is the more emotional unease it is going to create. The more selfishness there is the more problem it will create.
I have some dreams like self realisation and I would wanna continue following them, the purpose etc. If she starts to demand the time that comes into the way of this. It will make me at unease, if she creates the env. Where I can do this at ease. And help her in her dreams as well.
This has to be rooted in the idea of other person happiness.