If not expectation than what !
*surrendor experiment - * For a week, run this, no more effort, just sit and listen what your heart is saying and do that. Let see how living the Tao feels like.
Self purification until you are happy in every moment without any selfish expectations- keep reading book, attending retreat, analysing yourself, keep experimenting, until there is no ignorance left inside you. Understand everything inside and outside. Know what is rotten and do every effort to go beyond it.
Serve others - find some way to sencierly someone who is in pain and you can really help.
Play - Really explore and play with other human beings like Rooney. And when the play is over. You forget it and move on.
Center around your swa-dharma - Make your service your center. Sincere service.