In the relationship.
When you are in the relationship, there is intimacy and closeness. There is also sense of caring and discardtion the loneliness. A place where you go back home and have a good time together, have a breakfast together. Design it so going back home become desired.
There is common dates. Outing. Living together. Growing together. Supporting each other.
There is a balance. It shouldn’t be something that is creeping into all pervading everything. Do the daily breakfast together, weekly date. Going out every now and then. But then be sure your spirituality, work and health are checked.