Know what matters.
There are four main areas of life -
- Self-growth.
- Realtionship.
- Work.
- Health.
1. Master the worldly life -
I have nice 2 bhk flat rented in a good society, adequately furnished with proper kitchen and comfortable setting. Maid to take care of food. A room as a studio to shot the videos. A perfect setting. I am living in a place where I have excess to coworking spaces and cafes around. So I have a good place to live and a good place to work.
I have a yoga studio nearby where I attend my yoga class, and I eat sattivk simple healthy food. I feel energized whole day and is an excellent health. My mind is quite and concentrated.
My work is aligned with my strength, value and interest and I am obsessed with it. I find it meaningful to myself and meaningful for others. It is challanging and engaging and constantly helping me to grow and serve in a meaningful way. I am making enough money.
I am engaged in the communities I like to engage with, like yoga, Toastmaster, Coworking. Ashayein. I have some good companion relationships. Deep romantic relationship. Strong family relationship.
Every single moment I am evolving myself. Constantly learning and getting deeper. Widening my understanding. Exploring. Learning. Letting go.
Realising myself.
I live in a 2bhk decent sociatey in kormangala, I work from innov8, and have a studio setup at home. I make around 1 lakh month now, and obsessively work. I am in a relationship with smart and beautiful person, we have dinner every night and share mutual affection. Sometime I hang out with few friends and coworker, sometime I go to serve. I have strong relationship in my family. In the communities I go I have smiling realtionship and friendly communication. behind all this I am constantly growing in terms of self mastery and self understanding, using every experience to understand myself better and free myself, one step at a time, and looping it back to my work. I don’t waste even a single second. My food is simple, Sattvik and well cooked, and my health is optimal.
2. Expressing the god -
Having zero self desire, compete self master, realisation of god. Expression of god, non-action. Where you are not in control of yourself anymore. You are just a channel, an instrument.
The state is bliss. Ultimate freedom. Realising who you are. And then there is nothing else to do. But to express that. Nothing more to gain.
Ultimate stage of self growth. And it will take time. In a way your self growth, work, and health is leading in this direction. While relationship and communication are removing the roadblocks. And giving you neccesary skills to share and understanding to mature yourself. The key is to be at one place at a time.