Learning of the day #1 negotiation with dada.

Today I confronted dada in a very diplomatic way, negotiated the deal, instead of getting angry, reaffirm, and repair.

The situation was such that I was kind of loosing trust in him because of his conduct on the baroat trip. And even later he was trying to message extra charges and completely willing to fight.

The situation is somewhat willing to take the bigger share in the business and taking advantage of other persons nice behavior, and taking it as a weakness. And the second aspect was the lack of communication and being silent so other person back down.

It was interesting to see how much he wanted to avoid the conversation, oh ya ok. He wasn’t willing to go through any confrontation.

There was absolutely no blaming.

People are sick and they are going to avoid responsibility, trying to take advantage, dominate, become aggrasive and all these things are expected. There are also other side which try to repair.

Given the clear understanding of what the deal suppose to be, instead of getting angry and blaming. Negotiate what ever reasonable deal you can.

In any relationshp know your expectation. And then if it is egoistic one, without offending just negotiate the good deal.

 
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