Learning of the day #13. The chain of lies.

So I come and stay with Lin, Bhai called and I said I am buying poha, which is true, but then it leads to another question that where are you living.

What I am doing is not something that I will consider wrong, but is having wrong from the parents and brothers point of view.

Now this is a kind of deadlock, I don’t want to lie. But telling truth is breaking their code of conduct severely. It is the area I would like to have private.

It is ok to not disclose certain parts of life to other people. You can withhold that information. Or if you have tell the lie, tell it as close to truth as possible.

The only information I need to withhold here is that I am staying with girl, which is a right thing to do for me. You can withold that info. From family. By telling them everything else truth.