Learning of the day #14. The blockage.

So yesterday, a guy came to meet Lin. She also told me about many other people that are chasing her. And then today she went to meet that guy. She was dressed up. And then she spent around 5hrs. A part of me seems to not like it. The childish one.

I came back home and there is a bit of the tension. The subject is touchy. And that makes it challnaging to discuss. If not discussed it creates the knot. The conversation first become slight uncomfortable and then you know.

I want her to go out meet more people. I want to do the same. But such is the nature of attachment.

She should meet more people. Especially if someone wants to marry her. This is but obvious. I need to observe any discomfort in me. And then it needs be discussed unless she really don’t want to.

Bring the topic and talk about it. release it. Know your position. Take advantage of opportunity.