Learning of the day #15. diffusing the tension in relation.

I talked to prachi today. She was in a way avoiding me. And then cleaning after me. The coldness in the general behaviour.

I asked her wo Nagraj lab Rahe Bain. She denied no. And then not on you and then because of brother. Although I stayed with conversation. I guessed. All this was natural. And it created safety.

The effect was amazing. She opened up like a flower. Making intensive repairs. Initiating conversation after another. Should I make a chai. Telling me she wants kindle. Giving me Gita. Warming in plate. Offering me her Gita. My voice was good. We are modern.

All it took was naraj lag rahe ho. To diffuse an ongoing tension.

 
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