Learning of the day #24. When there is nothing to talk.

Yesteryday I went to yoga I did the class, and after the class I stand in front of the reception, I had no question, but for some reason I stand and tried to make the conversation. Now the receptionist wasn’t really a friendly guy.

Ideally, receptionist suppose to ask me how was the class and explain me the process and about the studio all in this case. I tried to start the conversation and he kind of cut me off. He was feeling somewhat unsafe. And then I had no real question.

My standing there was in a way, me easing the conversation non verbally giving him chance to easily initiate and flow with the conversation. It was a way to socialize, and it is good. My intention was not to have conversation but to just socialize. And he didn’t, The problem actually is the wrong match.

So in this case, you should know your intention is to just socialize and not to get any info. If conversation didn’t flow. That means its not the right match, move on. All you can do is cut the time frame.