Learning of the day #25. Sight uncertainty and chance to delegate the decision.

I went to Ayana, and I was unsure about how long I want to take that package, I come to the conclusion that I want to take 2000rs package. There was no receptionist so ask the teacher to do it. She did but than cradit card is not there problem arised. I said I will pay next time. I didn’t have cash.

Now lin came and offered me that she can pay for me. The other girl was little bit uncomfortable seeing me with Lin. I said no I will pay with card, lin insisted and I said no I will pay by card.

Coming out, now I feel at unease.

I am dealing in the trasction and other person offered the help. I can deny the help or take it. Ideally I would like to handle my transaction one to one with the person I am dealing. Otherwise now I have to deal with the third party.

But this is the difference scenario as lin and me are in relationship it is more of a unit. I could land her a hand and use hers too.

I never want to ask money from my father, you see, in general don’t do that. Keep the finance, especially independent.

In this particular case I guess it didn’t;t make much difference either way, but I guess it is ok till a point to help each other in this way, especially as both of you are responsible.