Learning of the day #3 explanation to shantu.

He asked me what I am doing and I went on and on about the way of life. It gives the energy to my internal diloague to express itself in the light of a demand.

I could have genuinely helped him, if I see things from his perspective but I was more interested to tell my opinion. Because the desire of impressing and subtle thoughts on similar area.

Instead of telling him about Bhagwat Gita and Patanjali, mastery of love and 3% man which is not wrong, but not grounded and calibrated, much better approach would have been to see things from his point of view and give Calibrated advice this way it would have been incridbely helpful for him and also more intersting to me,

I was also close to listen to what he wants to share ofcourse he has done 30 days course more vipassana retreats. And he wanted to tell me about his books. But I wasn’t interested. It would have been good to listen to him and learn from him.

He is more kind and generous than me. And then he is similar to me, with different experiences, how could you not learn from him, and it is a wasted opportunity to help him more deeply as well. He seems very sincere.

 
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