Learning of the day #31. Receiving repair attempts

Today morning, lin came to me and said sorry with trumbling voice that she ignored me and she felt sorry for it. It was the repair attempts for the mistake she thinks that I didn’t even notice.I took it as an insult. That she willingly ignored me. And acted hurt and thought about it for some time. And as always leaving it all together.

Everybody has their personal life including me and that can create the distraction and pull someone attentions. And make them feel closed. Taking something like that personally and imagining I am the cause of their disturbance, is a stupidity.

Then it was purely the act of affection. And took some courage from her. Since her voice was trumbling. A repair attempt that screams I Care.

I should be encouraging and thankful for it. Instead of egoistic and hurtful.
Identify when a repair attempt is being made and receive it. You can be little playful sometime, since you know other person is looking for your approval in a way to make her feel good.