Learning of the day #32 Asking help from the strangers.

Toady as I was coming out from the Vipassana course. I noticed one person announcing that. There is one person who wants to go to bhansakri one person was provinding lift who is that.

I also want to go to bhasankri, and I already have a ride by bus.

This has happened before when I actually took the ride from the person, the challange I faced was I kind of had to loose the freedom and kinda do what other person wants me to do. Whenever they want to go. Wherever they stop and all that. It’s kind of charity. You loose a certain degree of freedom.

Then there are some people might not even be comfortable sharing there resources, or they might wanna have some snack in between and all that. Like the time someone invited my brother. You could fairly guess other person is not going to be very mature and will restrict some degree of freedom from them.

Prefer your own way, if you have that options. And if not, then ask for someone’s help. Especially if it is unidirectional try to avoid it as it will probably hinder your freedom and if out of obligation if someone do something it will leave bad taste in their mouth.