Learning of the day #37. candid discussion with J.

Today I went for the lunch with J. At one point she mentioned, no it is ok I can socialize one on one. Non verbally I felt like she meant I don’t perticulairly want to but I have to.

The reason why I planned this is beacasue of the manitance point of view, I didn’t have a perticular desire to meet her.

In the conversation we catch up with what you are doing, what you are doing, It seems it was kind of challenging for her to keep her attention focused as her interest was not much here.

Then we went deeper in the sense of point of views and how we are facing the challenges of relationship. This is something I was interested in and conversation was kind of fun and a learning expericece.

This let me out what was really in my mind, and discuss that with other person. What she did beautifully is listened and gave her point of view.

I am not sure If she found it a lot of fun.