Learning of the day #7. Corrective feedback to Prachi.

I was asking to brother for mom’s checkup. And prachi did this again, not now and all, in really bad tone.

Now this has to be communicated to her about this behaviour is not accepted or the very least it how it makes us feel bad.

She is becoming more egoistic, more and more if I am silent. She is also playing these emotions games with brother. And being indirect and disrespectful.

Now challenge in this situation is that you don’t want to blame her, but point out her behaviour including positive side. And communicate that meanness is neither good for us nor good for her.

• you need to convey this is acceptable conduct.
• your self centered ness is increasing, and you are becoming more Self centered, this is not good for you and dadily for any relationship.
• you have good side too.
• this is not your decision to make.

It is better to communicate this when she is not angry. In alone. Or you can confront her when she is being disrespectful.

Imagine you are facing the confrontation situation you are facing and she is being disrespectful and self centred.

Prachi ye KYa tareeka hai baat Karne ka. Mare ko nahi pata kitne awareness hai apko par aap to ekdam disrespectful hotel jay rahe ho, aur dusri taraf aapka ego badhta jaa raha hai. Es tareeke se aap aage badhe to 30-32 mein bl sharma ko paar kar doge.

Your reply should be confront on the spot.

Prachi ye kya tareeka hua.