Learning of the day #confused and non-verbal sarcasm.

Today I went to movie with Lin. I was feeling a bit conservative about spending money. Especially luxury spending. It started in the mind from the taxi fare. And then the dye art cafe. And then 300rs for the pop corn. My childish mind was not in agreement. A part of me didn’t want to, a part of me want to, confusion. If it was just me I woundn’t buy the popcorn but since lin was with me, and she said she wants to, that was the reason I want to buy that.

In that confused state. I went to that service provider, unsure. Even thought I knew the price I still asked him how much for what, and then I gave him 100rs. And he gave me a sarcastic comment. Or I maybe I misinterpreted his normal comment.

I was confused and unsure and in a way that makes me valunerable and other guy took a cheap shot. Or as I misinterpreted with Lin before, I totally misread the situation.

When You are dealing with other people, especially bussiness more clear you are more better. If not you know your position of unsurity. If it is because of data that is one case. If it is because of child inside you. Acknowledge and Make a choice. And then execute knowing you will feel unsure and at unease. You can also let your partner take the driving seat and tell them you are feeling unsure.

About the cheap shot. that was non verbal cheap shot. You can hold other person accountable, if you are in stable condition, and he is doing it for nothing, do it. You can hold other person accountable, give a non verbal sign of disapproval. Or just reply in the same way.

Thanks them that they are making you aware of your shortcoming. Observe what is happening in your mind. This was the case of voilation of respect. And that was the conditoning of his mind.

Work on yourself so you don’t go out of balance by others approval disapproval etc. you can hold other people accountable. As a part of swinging the ball you can make fun of other people. And reply back with same intensity.