Lin what’s ahead and if it didn’t work.
The thing with Lin is all the cards are open. I know her quiet deeply. And she loves me. There is a lot of effort we put together. And the bond is strong. There are going to be some challenges but they will be in all the relationships. The positive parts are there and negative parts are immutable. She is from china. And she has a poor health.
See if I find another person it is going to take some time to build the relationship. Just the fling thing I am absolutely not into. Neither I want that kind of sex nor I want time pass and drama.
So there are two decision that needs to be taken, one do I want to be in a relationship!! Do I just want serious relationship or considering marriage!!
Now Lin must have the priorities of her own. Maybe she does want marraige and child etc. if the priorities are not matching than you need to let her decide.
If the thing with Lin dosen’t workout. You still need to keep engaging in communities and build relationships. But if you are in relationship with Lin. Than you are not looking for other opportunities.