Listening others and finding truth.
It is pretty clear that there is a system of beliefs and many I’s. and there needs a major refactoring.
While I am listening to other people. I can not just accept what they are saying, What they are saying is there interpretation, sometime there is a truth that you can easily agreed with. Sometime some people understood right things. sometime what they are saying is just there observation and it can be wrong.
The way to know the truth is by observation. Like a scientist if you try different ways and find cause and effect and understand the mechanics, sometime you just assumed. but the challenge is while reading others, first accept there will be somethings you can learn by seeing from others perspective. what they are telling you how somethings work becuase they kept there attention there or did a lot experimentations there.
When they are telling you something few things will be right and few things will not be right. you have to be able to discern between them, leave the ones you are not confident of, and accept the ones you are. you don’t need to argue and fight with the ones you are not confident of, Just leave it.
Here I want to build the structure of reality based on truth.