LOD#62. Parents Feeling Unsafe.

Toady I was having conversation with parents and they were accusing my brother and her wife for neglects and was very angry that they preferred her nanny over mom. They were verbally accusing them. God knows what they will do when they will reach there.

The underlying problem was that they were feeling very disrespected. And some of the part they were saying might also be true.

Any attempt from my side to explain anything was going into the vein. As they were not listening at all. In the middle I tried different route. I started to listen to them intently. And start summerizing it to papa.

This is the only way to create safety, you have to listen to them, and repeat it back so they know they don’t have to fight, they are actually being listen. And then set the mutual purpose. Rally in cry. Which is what we want, we all want to live together.

There is a need of communication that mom needs to be that parents need to be less controlling. And prachi needs to understand that she needs to gel with the family instead of withdraw with them. And prachi parents need to understand that they should let go of her daughter.