+ve and -ve of Relationship.

One of the most important thing is intention should be the same, we are in the relationship because if I am exploring and she is thinking long term, someone’s heart will broke. This is why the commitment is important.

The basic statement of mind and nature should be positive.

One of the reason the bitterness developed in my relationship is because she felt cheated by me. for 2 years I stayed and enjoyed her generosity without a commitment.

How can relationship enrich the life?
My focus is clear. I will do everything to maximize my spiritual goal. having a good health. Growing in social and work realm, in the incermental way.
Once you are clear what you wanna do in life, Relationship can enrich it. Or relationship can help in the process of this descovery. A relationship will be counter productive.

The relationship is beautiful when I focus on the good aspects of it, relationship is disaster when I feel negative aspect of it.

Imagine a girl, who you are attracted to and who is deeply into meditation, and yoga, and healthy living, she is also highly into self growth, attractive. 3 year yonger than you. and has no ego and the general state of mind is positive. Her intention is to build the life together and grow together.

A good relationship is when both people have strong trust with each other, and sharing happens consistently. where other people express their struggle, and pursuites freely, and two minds are on that problem.

A good relationship is when both people supports each others growth.