Object oriented communication.
The smallest unit of the communication is the object. It can be an abstract or concrete. Fundamentally a person has some sort of relationship with that object. And communication happens based on that object. For one person another person can be the object.
identifying the objects - - the first basic step is to identitfy the objects in the communication.
similar and subobject - moving from object to similar objects and subobject.
introduce and remove objects - you must be able to introduce and remove the objects from the conversation.
objects and the learn - I like it, I hate it, you like it you hate it. What is it?, why it is so, this is why it is, it is this, can this object do this.
object and the play - teasing the object.
objects and share- moving the conversation from shallow to deeper object.
objects and ego - how tightly the person is holding that object.
another person as an object - displaying desire for another person.