On Romantic Relationship and Lin.

First know your self and spent all time learning the nature of reality, see things as it is. work and study your own nature, the nature of the doer and the nature of the witness consciousness, solve these puzzles not being in any relationship will help you to progress here faster, as you do more vipassana things will become more clear, have faith in the process and put your energy and vigour here and what are the laws of nature.

That means I am not interested in any other relationship at all and only interested in the spiritual aspect of life and work. work provides enough stimulus and finance to do this enquriy with ease. that means, that means you will also learn how the me feels living by itself and working, keep the moderate social context and don’t over extremize it.

About the Lin, she has to own her life, the best thing for her to deal with her supression, the worst thing for her is to give up or live in a false hope. If I guide her that can create attachment in her and me. If she could find a good relationship than she should enter in one and I should exit. If she need some help, I should do it. She should be able to come and stay here. I have her stuff that whenever she wants she should be able to get it.

My instance is I don’t want to explore relationship but explore and correct myself until I get to the point of libration. So I won’t be engaged with anyone, a moderate social interaction is actually helpful. With Lin I want to help her to live a good life, if it is helpful for her to live in bangalore she is welcome, if she wants her stuff sent I will do that, She is responsible for her life and decision. Only thing is I need to make it clear the highest priority for me at the moment is spiriutal resolution.