On telling the truth of Lin to parents.
What I did is right. So there is no self judgement is there. Now the challenge is discomfort of speaking falsi.
Now there is one challenge that is speaking falsi feels wrong. I prefer to speak as much truth as possible.
People in relationship with me has expectation and maturity level. If I speak the truth there expectations from me will adjust, It will put severe stress on them. That will agitated them.
Should I tell them the truth and let them experience the agony and possibly add the questions related to why this and why that. or should I tell the falsi.
It would be good for relationship if they understand what kind of person I am. and except me, If they are not ready start with exposing gradually.