QA #2

Q- should I go for a dance class or should I read more about this whole game.
A- so there is no doubt that I am moving in this direction and this will be the area of focus till I see it from inside. basically I am going in direction where I suck the most and fear the most. wonder I fear because I suck in it. understanding social dynamics and establishing myself authentically in it. and understanding the psychology of women and being authentically comfortable around it.

so what should I do. naturally the most obvious thing for me to do is, to understand this dynamics first. theoretically by reading book and all and than go all in, the problem is I usually tend to lean on it quite longer than it suppose to be. and than the other way around is just go and do it. the problem here is it creates negative experiences. which again is not so cool.

the answer is obviously some where in between. I need to have a good theoretical belief that it is doable and understanding of the whole game. take your time and learn it first. it’s not that complicated. create an actionable game plan and than jump in. on the other hand I need to have a pipeline of things that scares me or I want to do. kind of stages.

so obvious but some time mind like to be confused. or it is just habit.