QA #5

Q- how to handle hard people
there are certain kind of people. which commonly have very poor internal, external and skill level life. and than they have no agenda to be better and infect they are very proud of themselves. some of them even have a good heart. and I struggled to deal with them. I don’t want to be rude to anyone. but I clearly don’t belong in their presence. and more often than not I witness second class behavior from them which is unacceptable.

you just don’t have to be hanging out with them. see the thing is they are not choosing me I am choosing them. because at certain level I am conditioned to be afraid to hang out with high quality people. I don’t have good social skills so generally I fallback to my safe spot. I am never choosing socially, and always getting whatever is left out or something.

this is very much linked with me not asking what I want. and than crying over getting left outs. and the second problem is slipping out from conversation and not asserting your point of view. these things are damaging a certain aspect of life. and it is not something even unauthentic. it is more of not presenting yourself.