Relationship #01. Retroaspective.

re-enforce good parts -
I like that she cooks the meal for me, her surprises and caring. She liked that I want to spend more time with her. Help her in cooking.

working with seeds of tension - she told me many times that she don’t like me beating her. She is also told me to keep the light turned of and keep my buds in one place. I couldn’t think any corrective action. She also didn’t like when I force her to arouse me.

shared dream together - maybe we can walk together. Go to bed on time and do not engage in arousing act unless we know we are going to have sex. We can sometime go to yoga class.

She mentioned several time her desire to take it forward by mentioning not see anyone else, husband etc. and her being hurt because I abandoned her. Which is delicate topic and needs to talked to. There is also me being so much of a nice guy sometime.