Relationship.

The wrong reasons to get into relationship.
You find women attractive. You feel lonely. You won’t get the women later, Old age will be challenging. Societal pressure. You want to experience.

Why?
Because you will keep finding more attractive women and your mind will generate the similar thoughts, but now it will be about breaking this up and getting with some other women. And indeed attractiveness of your women will diminish over the period of time…

If you want to get into relationship because you feel lonely, then ofcourse it will distract you for sometimes, and then you will feel dissatisfied and burdened and lonely.

Mind will come up with different problems, You get women on every age and this is not a security for the bad time, infect it can actually intensify the bad times, again entering into loveless relationships like this, and with expectations

If these are the reasons you get into relationship, it will become a trap that sucks energy.

Then what I should I do?
You work on your self until your default state is love not lonely, and needy, You feel happy and blissful when you are by yourself. and you feel strong sense of compassion and love for everyone. This is the state when you are purified. Your state should be you don’t want anything, you can’t see other person suffering and you want to share the love in your heart.

What if I am not there yet?
A relationship can help you to get there if your companion share the same aspiration. It will be beautiful relationship to work together towards the same goal of self purification.

Then Know your direction?
Even if you feel the state of constant love, and compassion you need to know the direction of your life, and then also your partners, and there should be some overlap. and respect for others dream.

Know your stance on Big stuff?
You should have a clear stance on Money, Sex, Children, and Family relationships.

You should master the communication and release the misunderstanding at the right moment. Convey your dream.