Relationship next layer.

So for me, a relationship is all about social support and love, knowing each other in-depth, supporting each other in their journey and building kind of shared jounrey, committing to building the future together.

It is not about physical attraction, controlling others, pleasing others, or finding meaning and purpose in the relationship.

With Lin the good parts are she is I enjoyed her frequency, independent, simple, homely, not very egotistical, do not drink, smoke, and has common interest like yoga and health.

Challenging part is her health issue, she seems to be a bad deal given her past record abortion, and friend circle, poor academics… Then it frustate me when acts aloof, closing the door, silent, irritiated, in the state of affliction. Lastly her ideas and attachments to them, marriage etc. forcing them on me.

One of the hardest things in the relationship is how you deal with your garbage when things are not going the way you want. Do you become bitter.