Relationship #resolving the conflict.
what you want - I want to grow and help her to grow and build the relationship to ease up the loneliness and create the env. For flourishing.
mutual pupose - like each other. the desire to be in relationship instead of living lonely and seeing if this could turn into more serious relationship.
apoligize and contrast - it was my mistake to go to deep I should have apologized and build contrast instead of going silent and fighting for the air.
my story - I went to silent, because I was feeling disrespected and sad. Because she is angry at me, she said I should do all the house work.
ask her to retrace her path - why you said it. [angry | silent]..