Social
The desire related to acceptance of others is there in “me” and it activates the mind in different ways. This desire causes the fear to fully express myself. This is the cause of mental churning of what to say and how to handle that scenario.
There are things I will do in alone, that I can not do in public.
In any social relationship two people desire two different things, and relationship demands that one person compromises.
Sometime me is abusive.
There is automatic empathy and compassion when I see me is trying so hard.
The me with the internal dialogue is the cause of anything that is happening outside.