#7 social boundaries and need.
I somewhat know how. I also have somewhat unfrormed idea of why. But what exactly I am looking for. A clear goal. It’s vague and that vagueness is somewhat paralizing.
One clear must really required thing is the relationship. This is what you must need to do. The reason is sooner Or later you have to do it, If you don’t do it now. It will only be hard later.
Social intellegence - If you feel any discomfort in any scenario, built up on it. Learn to adapt and dance in social situation. Play a little, run some experiments, Add some techniques. Being expressive and yourself. Try different setting and see what needs they ceatre. Just observe some time.
Kind and curious Frame - Nothing kills a social conversation like egoistical frame. Kindness and ego can not be at the same place. Built on this frame
Sangha- a small group of people to whom you can call, and they feel free to call you. People like you. You don’t force them but gives them opportunity to connect on deeper level.
Love tank - Experiment a little with this social need and human touch need. When you feel filled. When you feel the need, the nature of this need and what fills it.