Social diplomacy #1 - the childish subconcious.
There is this childish and powerful subcoicious mind, driven by strong attachments and desires and selfis centeredness in most of the cases. It believes whatever it believes and think it true. Founded in wrong understanding.
It won’t listen anything, extremely sensitive, and judge mental and close. It takes everything very very personally.
It is very powerful in the sense it is emotional driven, and those desire feels so right. Even if something makes sense logically, it hardly stand a chance in front of desire oriented emotional subconscious. It just doesn’t feel right.
It is the same mind that makes repair attempts when it realize it has crossed the line.
when you are in conversation some time you are talking to sensible logical person, most of the time you are talking to this crazy, illogical animal hell bound to create problem for it self.
It feels as if it can do god knows what but at the same time when the time present itself it so afraid to take any action.
It is aggressive, passive, passive aggressive, and then it pretend like an adult while from inside act like a child. Manipulative.
You have to deeply understand it. If you want to deal with it in other person and in yourself. It’s constant patterns and structures.